If you want to reach your goal quickly (at least much faster) then you absolutely must become a student. You have to study and learn from everyone that knows something about your goal.

I am sure that if you wanted to climb Mount Everest then you would understand that talking to someone who has done it before you would be a great benefit, well your goal is no different.

If you want to be a better person, study better people. If you want to be a better parent then study parenting. It really is that simple. You will shorten the distance to your goal if you become a student of life.

Now get to work and start studying.